Everyone wants to be happy and most people are ready to do almost anything if it holds the promise of guaranteeing them happiness. But very few are successful in this never ending quest for happiness. The reason is simple -just as there are things which make us happy, there is a whole other list of items that act as barriers to happiness. Enlisted here are some such things that stop you from being happy. 1. Comparison You are unique and it’s time you realized that. Don’t measure yourself according to standards set by others. Rather, it should be the other way round. As long as you are able to achieve your own targets, why worry about what others are doing? 2. Daydreaming Everyone has certain wishes and imagines a better future. But that doesn’t mean that you have to pass your entire time day-dreaming about what could/should have been. Nothing can be achieved by wishful thinking. It only adds to one’s owes. 3. Self-pity Once in a while, you will come across someone who s
Who wouldn’t like to get rid of stress? But the only problem is that it is easier said than done. There are whole lot of self help books and CDs available in the market and hardly a day goes by without seeing an ad in the TV or on the Internet of a Godman or an enlightened speaker promising to help you get rid of stress once and for all but they hardly seem to work. So how exactly can stress be reduced? Well, for starters, watch your diet and include the following food items in it. Check out this list of foods that reduce stress. 1. Spinach If you don’t turn into a superhero, at least you will turn into a genius as spinach contains folic acid and other antioxidants. But apart from these, it is also a great stress buster as it provides a good dose of magnesium which can prevent fatigue and migraine. 2. Nuts While almonds are rich in vitamin B and E which strengthen your immune system, others like walnuts help fight blood pressure. Almonds also contain magnesium and zinc whic